With me, even if I’m chasing a woman to get her back because I believe in it for some reason, it hasn’t happened many times twice and one of those I didn’t chase, I just held onto it, but if I am chasing, usually to get back, not to just get for the first time like what you seem to be doing, what I will do is put almost 100% of the energy into making myself what I perceive as attractive but at the same time keeping it real and true to me. I’m never acting like something I am not, I just try to turn it up and aim the speaker directly at her face, knowing full well she might be living in a mansion with a millionaire, married and maybe in another country. I NEVER look anywhere else UNLESS someone outside the 2 of us, on her side or mine puts their 2 cents in or gets on me. They pick a fight or they stand there pinching me like a b****…. THEN yeah, god help that person. No doubt, but I f****** hate to be distracted while I’m busy with anything, especially sliding I am passionate about. I never pick a bone with anyone outside of the 2 of us out of jealousy or envy. I don’t get either.
