I am a victim of circumstance. I don’t think I’m a bad person, but why are these things happening to me? I slept around because I was lonely, but I never intended to hurt anyone. Well, I guess the joke’s on me, I’m the one in pain. I never forced anyone to do anything, but why am I being judged for doing what I thought would help me survive? Is longing for affection really so wrong?
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The LORD detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy.
It is if you knowing hurt someone else in many ways for the, oh, 100th time.
Yeah I completely realize nobody owes anyone anything but if you can show a certain level of respect for certain people who absolutely deserve it, and you do know what you’re doing. That’s fine. No problem. Do whatever makes YOU happy, fuck everyone else at least you are happy BUT you shouldnt ever expect anything good or anything at all really ever again from that person. It could be respect, boundries whatever. Depending on how damaging your indiscretions are to the other person, because again, honestly, you need to be happy, fuck what anyone else thinks, it’s your life, but you basically forfeit the persons attention or whatever it may be, love, respect. You forfeit the person. If that’s a problem for you, well sometimes you need to think about what you are doing before you do it, the potential consequences for everyone, not just you, but you also need to protect what’s important to you. People know exactly what they’re doing when they do it. Something you might have on the back burner potentially for later, maybe its “important” but you are one of those stupid people who can’t really feel and can easily let go of important things like people or places. Then again, they say when someone has one or more other people out there, it’s easy to forget 1 little person right? What is 1 person compared to ALL those other things and people?
In short do what you want, but dont expect the other person to understand and let shit slide. Especially if you knew what you were doing and you knew the consequences were severe to the person and to the “relationahip”. It doesn’t really matter how you see it. It’s not up to you. You gave all that up.
And don’t expect people who do care about that person to understand either, especially if you did a lot of damage
I’m a victim of circumcision
Longing for affection isn’t wrong, going about it the way you did is. Really? Sleeping around? It is NOT that hard to just find a steady girlfriend/boyfriend and stick with it. If you chose to blast by people’s feelings, being isolated and rejected is entirely on YOU. Not circumstance. That’s just the way it is.