To: At a young age into my young teen years I was molested by my older brother.
Me: you need to talk to the police if you live in a Western Culture, like America for example, about both your brother and 22 years ago and about the man at work who presumably raped you. It does not matter how long ago your brother molested you, or when the man raped you at work, the police will hold both accountable, as if the incidents occurred yesterday. Then you could go to a psychologist or psychiatrist and talk out these things with them. Once you get it out of your mind, they would help you to connect with yourself and move on with your life and be able to put these matters behind you. You might also be entitled to a large cash payment, in compensation, from both of your attackers.
If you live in Pakistam or India, you don’t generally have any rights as a woman and I can’t really offer any support or suggestions beyond talking to someone and try and get the matters out of your mind and out of your life.
If you require my assistance on how to do that, I can suggest one method which works very efficiently for me, when I have needed to get over really bad marriage breakups (twice) and got me and my thinking on a level footing and my being able to move on with my life, having got the issues out of my mind and out of my life.
Just ask here. I will see and respond accordingly, this being a confessions site and you might not read any of the replies, such as mine.
Best wishes……………….
