To: I’m dating a victim of s***** abuse since she was a child Me: Get a grip you stupid bugger. Just because of what she said happened to her, does not mean that you have to take it on board and own it with her. You should look at it all in the 3rd party. You were not there, you did nothing to make her the way she is. When she needs counselling or emotional help, apart from f****** her and friendship, send her to the professionals whose responsibility it is to handle issues like that. Think of how your doctor, nurses, paramedical staff and others who see horrid things in their job, which at best would be more than you or I could handle, on a daily basis. They have to switch off their feelings, so they are not affected by what they see on a daily basis, as you must with this girl. Alternatively, if she is a train wreck which has happened a long time before you met her, why are you still hanging around her. You should have dropped her like a hot potato, as soon as you realized what was involved and be with someone who is not brain fucked from the outset. More to the point you should tell her to grow up. Get past it and move on with her life. One gives you ten she is playing you, to get whatever she can out of you. Perhaps you should be proactive and ask her what he did to her and then say you want to do that too, if you are to continue together, because it’s terribly s*** and should be both a cure and a pleasure to her. See what happens then. Topping yourslf is the most stupid thing you have said so far. It was a billion to one you got a life at all. You were the result of the one sperm that made it to your mothers egg at precisely the right ime to fertilize it. All of the other sperm died. Having been given the miracle of life, it is up to you to be creative and successful, so that all of the other sperm, did not die for nothing. Our lives are short and we are a long time dead, so then would be a time to have negative thoughts and now should be living a very successful and enjoyable life. Choose your relationships carefully and don’t get into such a pointless relationship again. Duh!! If you did kill yourself, think of your parents, relations, friends and everyone who knew you and liked you and the impact of your early death on them. Stop being self serving. You can’t just kill yourself without it affecting other people, perhaps destroying their lives as well, because of your selfishness and unthinking attitude. No parent should see their child die before them. It makes their reason for living, pointless and nobody to pass their line onto future generations
Best Wishes………..Idiot
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Hello person,
I will have to say you are right in a sense about the suicide. Personally, I’m not going to I just needed an avenue to express my dark feelings. I have known to many people who have been negatively affected by suicide, so I am very conscious of how selfish it is. Even though life is actually, physically pointless. Regardless, as stated by Sartre, of whom I ascribe to, the purpose of life is to find one and create one yourself. Also, you are rather insensitive in regards to my girlfriend. Who the fuck advised you to help treat trauma by reinacting that same trauma? You sick fucktard. Also, it’s been a year, she’s seen multiple counselors (all failing to help), she’s taking medicine (all failed), and she’s not fucked in the head, she just only confesses these things to me, which in turn amplifies my own depression. You seem to be a very blatant misogynist, so I’ll ignore that part as I actually value the experiences of my girlfriend. Yes, I don’t be able to solve them, as I am no expert, but it doesn’t mean she deserves to be mistreated because she’s been abused. However, I do appreciate your advise to just tough it out (although that advise itself lacks the nuance of admitting that emotions are valid, just don’t pursue self-harm). Thank you.