To: Hey, there is definitely a few women from my past who I wish things were different. Me: Me too. I could have ended relationships I had, better. I could have asked difficult questions, But I did not know how too. I could have done a lot of things a lot better, but I was too young and inexperienced to know any better and because I was a later starter and I traveled from England, where I was born, to New Zealand, where I learned to become who I always wanted to be, unfortunately, I did not have the mental growth or understanding to do things differently. I wish I could go back and do some things differently, but that is from the learning of wisdom, where I did not have that wisdom before and I was not born with it, or attained it, from child to adult. The toughness of my life and how I lived it, gave me the wisdom I sometimes share now.
I’ve gone looking on the internet to find people from my past, in New Zealand, “calling” – Victoria League, Younger Members Group (1971 – 1977) – I live abroad now and have these past 40 years or so. No trace of any of them. I hope their lives were great and they are still alive, but like you – there is no going back, only moving forward and hoping to make a difference, no matter how small, to other people’s lives, in a positive way – so my life (male) still has some value, at least to me, with few regrets.
Best Wishes…………..
