To: I have a serious crush on a girl at work. Thing is, I’m twice her age, her boss, and married. Me: Nothing ventured, nothing gained. A relationship with another woman is completely different from one with a man. Perhaps you should try something out and see if you like the taste. Only after you know where you are at, can you decide wherever you want to go next. Play both sides against the middle and keep your husband out of the loop and cover your bases that way. It is one thing to f*** a man and get his s**** in you. It is quite another way to f*** a woman, where no s**** is given or taken. I don’t see the problem in this enlightened world we live in, except your doubt. So what have you got to lose, except that itch to scratch…..Best wishes………