To: I don’t know if I’m going to tell the father I’m expecting, is that wrong? Me: NO!! It is up to you if you tell the father or not. You wanted a kid. You chose the ideal male for the child you wanted. You had s**. You got pregnant and when you have the kid you don’t need child support. Seems to me you planned everything by the book and now it is time to reap the rewards. Keep your kid, bring him up well, don’t tell the father – who knows, if you do, there could be custody issues further down the road, whereas this way, there will never be. When your kid wants to know who his-her father was, say you don’t know, or he died, or it was just a one off and you never met him again, Good for you and Well Done!!
