I am engaged to the mother of my child and we have another son due in October…
I am in a relationship I truly believe is toxic and I can’t see us lasting a lot longer. Right now the only thing keeping me with her is that she is pregnant with my 2nd son.
I have been trying to get OUR finances in order and as long as she has access to money it’s impossible. I work full-time and come home to make dinner, do dishes and laundry. While she is home all day with our first son.
I feel at last writing about it a bit has me feeling a bit more clear on what I want. I will continue to work hard for my family, but I don’t see it getting better with my fiance. I got us a marriage counselor whom is only available in a few months so I am just feeling like I am working so hard to come home and not be appreciated. My son makes it worth it for sure and I won’t stop. I hope my fiance will see that I am worth working for too. I am scared she won’t change her tune.
