My partner is emotionally abusive and I feel like I’m being eaten alive. But I can’t leave for financial reasons & because I’m having major surgery in a few months, and without her, I would have no one to take care of me afterwards. My life feels like a living hell and I’m not sure if I even love her anymore. She drove us home drunk last week and I was too afraid of her anger to say anything so I let her put our lives at risk (I don’t have my license). I’m too ashamed to tell my friends or family. I feel so f****** alone.
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So…you’re using her because you can’t stand on your own.
You sound like an entitled user. Get a license, get a job, take care of yourself and be an adult.
I can’t imagine beimg tied to someone, especially a woman, that way. Like in reverse. She wears the pants.
I have a rule where I don’t accept anything from women. For example I would never accept a loan for something like to pay my rent. I would sink and let go of the relationship before that, because of I’m in that kind of shape, I don’t have room in my life for a relationship anyway and I don’t want to put a woman through being obligated to my loser ads. She’ll leave anyway, right?
The bottom line though, personally, I believe I am better off living only for myself anyway. It’s just the way I think. The relationship would fall apart just based on how low I feel about myself without a job or independence or whatever. That kind of shit. She’d be gone. Some people CAN absolutely be deadbeats, literal s fun of the earth and they have kids with 7 differemt women! It’s like how?! That’s the only time I hate myself. When I am not what I think I should be and I’m unlikeable as a result. Pretty high standards for myself amd I’m smart enough to know my place. I have actually really really changed my life for the positive in many ways just to try to get a woman back, and it didn’t work, but whatever. Be a man is I guess what I’m saying.
Unless you’re a girl in which case… yikes…
“Yikes” is all I get. Lol ok.