I’ve been with my boyfriend over 6 years and everyone thinks we’re this perfect couple. In reality, he ignores me so much that I’ve started having my own life entirely. Not that he joins when I try to include him. People think I’m so brave and amazing because I travel alone and do all sorts of adventures by myself, but I only do it because I got tired of his rejection and I needed to live too! I seek constant adventure to escape the loneliness and rejection. He sleeps on the couch, I sleep in the bedroom. When we are home together, he spends most of the time knit picking everything I do. We’ve been trying to conceive for 2 years, and I often worry that maybe my subconscious is preventing me from getting pregnant because I don’t feel loved, we have no intimacy, and I resent him for not marrying me. He’ll only marry me ‘when’ I get pregnant, but it looks like that might never happen. And the truth is, I want him to marry me for ME! The worst truth is, I mostly just stay with him for stability and the fact that I fear starting over at 32 (almost 33) could result in me never having children.
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Commit an hour a day reading a couples book and doing work from a couples workbook. There are important exercises and questions to go through to make you closer and learn more about each other. It sounds like you both love one another but we’re all different and we need to learn how to get a long with each others differences. Why does he nit pick? There’s probly a reason. If thats’ how he is and he doens’t want to change, then maybe you need to make a difficult decision.
If you stay with him, then you’re proving that you’re a loser and a coward.
Drop his ass. Sperm banks can do what you need without the emotional neglect. Early 30s is not too late to start over.
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