monogamy is, by nature, possessive, jealous, destructive, toxic, stifling, untrusting, bitter, fearful, and weak. Applause to those who live monogamy better than this, but divorce rates, violence, unhappiness say that is not the norm. Ethical non-monogamy… now that is different… but not for everyone. Maybe we should rejoice in the love and joy our partners experience rather than trying to train and control it? Just saying.
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Divorce is caused by marriage not monogamy.
Many happy couples are not married and are very loyal but you don’t hear from them.
Those words.
Is it possible to use them in a sentence like that?
How about we don’t think about it at all? I actually agree. It’s pretty wild how your point of view changes over time. The problem with that and me when it comes to that way of thinking is it ends up not being love. I don’t give all of me to it or her. I care a little less. There’s less everything, but I’m most comfortable with a like minded woman anyway. They’re rare but out there. You want multiple people? Go ahead, but I’m not having sex with you. I’m strong, I can jerk off, because thats what it comes down to, is sex. I am not going to fight it, it’s not worth it, I’ll let the other one just have it, let her get what she needs and that’s about it. We can watch some tv or go to a movie sometime or talk if you feel like it? What does she need from me? I don’t play second fiddle when it comes to this kind of thing, and I do want more traditional. That’s my preference I’m straight and white and that’s just the fucking way it is, so I forfeit. I resign. I’ll get what I need elsewhere and from only one. We can be cool if I like you, we’re friends though. I’m not one of the who knows how many people you have sex with on a regular basis. You want that you need to quit everybody else, and for a while before that happens. A long time, I need proof.