I think I love him but he’s married. Hi. my name is Barb. I’m 21 and in a loving relationship with my bf Bob. I love him so much that I can’t imagine not being with him. I want to marry him and have kids with him but he doesnt want children or marraige. I already have a son froma previous relationship. My confession is that a guy who I used to have strong feelings for 6 years ago has come back into my life. His name is Jack. Me and jack used to be really close but he is 5 years older than me so other than kissing we never did anything. One day he just dissapeared. No one in town heard from him for 6 years and we all wondered where he went. I have thought about him alot but i never thought he would be back so I tried to put my feelings aside.It worked. I almost forgot about him. About a week ago we got back in touch. Now he’s married and has 2 kids. I am very happy that life has been good to him and that he is doing well. But now we talk everyday on msn and he started making me laugh and bringing up old memories and I think I’m falling for him all over again. I would never act on these feelings and would never hurt Bob again(I hurt him once before) and I would never mess around with someone who is in a relationship and i would never cheat. I need to stop these feelings somehow. Sometimes I think I only feel this way about jack because I want marraige and more children and Bob doesn’t. Please comment and give me your thoughts and advice. Only helpful comments please. thank you.