No…. It’s a combination of looks and personality, mixed with how much she genuinely likes you. At least it is for me. Looks are important. Both ways. I want her to be physically attracted to me too.

I just had to sign off on a workplace harassment policy. I was thinking to myself “wait a minute… First of all this is boring as f*** and common sense and besides, how is that even remotely relevant at this place?” Ladies, you have nothing to fear with me. I should be filing harassment complaints against you for giving me erectile dysfunction and impotence from being in your general vicinity.

And any attention I give outside of this place is very welcome.