He’s the kind of guy, I am an individual. I pride myself in being unique. For better or worse. People hate me and people love me, but I am myself and I don’t take example from people, especially people who are not good examples. According to my taste. Which is good. Better than yours.

I hear him using catch phrases of that one fat b******, who is a loser. The guy is a loser. I try and succeed at getting along with the guy, we have to, we work together, but I don’t share my life with the guy. He is the kind of guy who needs to know everything about everyone. He is the kind of guy who openly admits to doing drive BG’s at people’s houses. He is a fat, revolting loser. To put it bluntly and I do my best to keep everything from him. He is the guy who will comment on your new boots, or new jacket, and it’s like…. Why? Who cares? What’s it to you? One time a few years ago, my plate sticker on my car was expired by a few months. Guess who brought it up to me? It’s like how and why would you notice that? What did I do? That night, I went in and renewed it for not 1 year, but 2 years just because. Knowing that, I don’t want him knowing anything about me, no matter how mainor, and I sure as f*** would never t ever use one of his catch phrases. Why? Because the last person in the world I would ever take example from or want to be anything like is him. If he’s doing it, it’s wrong.

My brother spews it out like gospel. It annoys me. He soaks it up like a sponge.

There’s another guy we work(ed) with who is alright, I don’t want to talk bad about him, he’s had a rough go the past year, can home from work to find his wife dead. He had a stroke a few months back. He’s had a rough go and I like him, I’ve known him for over 20 years but he is not someone I take example from either. He likes to say “ain’t” “that ain’t my job” “I ain’t doing that” ain’t, ain’t, ain’t. You would never hear me say ain’t. I don’t think it’s a word and it’s low class in my opinion, not that I am high class, but I don’t say “aint”. My brother picked up habit of talking like him though. “I don’t care, I ain’t doing it…” “It ain’t my job” which irritates the s*** out of me because it’s clear that he’s a sponge when it comes to the way he is and he uses the wrong examples of people to sponge from. So that irritates me.

And he and I are complete polar opposites in every way completely. Thank f*** for that too.

But I hate that. Be an individual and have the taste to recognize, this guy is a loser of an example to be sponging your way of being off of. You should be looking at these people, and making a conscious choice be be nothing like them in any way shape or form.