I know a couple who stayed together through 3 kids. The wife struggled to find a decent man her whole life so despite the fact that she wasn’t attracted to her skinny, short, nerdy husband, she chose him. Then some 15 years later she met a tall, dark and handsome type and left them. She was tired of denying herself what she wanted I guess.

I told my bf that I worried he was settling for me. My ugly, fat body.. he’s younger and I struggle to see how he can be attracted to me. I do know that I’m good for him emotionally. I absolutely adore him and take great care of him. I just felt like I needed to express this concern.. He said that he’s happy and loves me.

So we got home and ate dinner. Then we went upstairs and he gave me some love. He never goes down on me but he did. He caressed me and gave me hickies my mom can’t see. I’ve got serious chunky thighs and he just spread them like whatever and got in there. Like.. he wasn’t afraid to touch me in a fat, uncomfortable area.

It just felt so good to be loved like that. He’s always so kind and gentle with me. I should never doubt him.. I just don’t love myself much, if at all. I’ll marry this boy if he asks.