Nobody should ever feel bad about judging people when it comes to dating.
I’m not into dating fat chicks. It doesn’t mean I hate fat chicks, we can be friends but if she can’t turn me on, what’s the point?
I expect to be judged too.
People should be able to handle rejection. Everyone should be able to handle it and take no for an answer.
I will not get with a black chick because black skin does not turn me on.
Same goes for what they do. If I don’t find it dignified and honest, lady like, I probably don’t want to get with her. I do not want to get with a s** worker.
I also judge personality traits. Hell I judge the type of people she calls friends.
Everybody judges, and we all should. I expect it and I also know when there’s a genuine two way connection between myself and a woman the same as I know when there is none. Pretty much immediately definitely after a sufficient amount of time.
I accept nothing less in friendships or romantic relations. I don’t get myself into wrong situations with the wrong (for me) people. I did at one time when I knew less. Not now. That’s a waste of time and energy.
