You have no power over me anymore. I still love you, but I do not currently respect you. I owe you, and I will always be willing to make it up to you, but I ain’t looking back anymore, and I’m not the one who really needs to be hospitalized. I understand you, but I ain’t excusing you from personal responsibility for the s***** state of your life. I ain’t your parent, I ain’t your martyr, but I could be your savior. When it comes down to it, it a comes down to what you’ll put up with.y friend didn’t quit using til she od’d on her porch. You’re too functioning. If You need to crash and burn before you ask for help, then so be it. Just don’t die dumbass, or I’ll have to kill your boyfriend for pretending to be straight edge and not policing your drug use.