Yeah that’s a captain obvious statement.

It’s true but why even think about it speak it?

You know what you do? Just forget it. Don’t be bitter about it in your actual life, don’t hate men or women, hell even just keep in the back of your mind that there ISNA slim chance you could run into the best thing you ever me, but treat everyone like it’s completely platonic. It’s possible to be cool or nice even attractive, not hostile, but at the same time not want anything. I’m not sayin be nice to everyone, no everyone deserves respect, you give it out appropriately, basically shut your mind off from the idea of romance or anything like that and look at everyone platonicaly. Basically wipe it out of your mind without protesting it out loud “EVERYONE CHEATS! MARRIAGE IS A SHAM!” or explaining it to anyone. I have people try finger it out of me, guys who I have actually known for years “you wouldn’t do that?” I’ll say to him “No, frankly I think I would rather take a bullet to my f****** brain” OR I might say “No, actually I am actually good the way things are right now, just liking after me…Inline s*** just the way it is…” But that’s about it. People can read into it what they want, but it basically means “nope… Not interested…”

Or girl I know platonicaly who I haven’t seen a while who actually knows nothing about any of my circumstances because I don’t talk about them and we respect each other asks me “So do you have a girlfriend yet? No. Are you ever gonna have another girlfriend? I don’t know. You know not all women are gonna do what she did right? I says so much without saying anything. She knew what I was thinking, what I was feeling, I never told her s***, and she obviously cares and likes me too respect.

You don’t need to protest. It’s known. You’re right. So permit sink in as the norm, and either live with it, or kill yourself, but it’s not worth killing yourself. Makes some money, and spend it on only you. Better yourself and keep it to yourself.