It’s not that I can’t fall in love. Whenever I like someone, I have this defence mechanism where I pretend I don’t like them. It’s not that I’ve been hurt before in a relationship. But something about relying on someone and putting my trust in them scares me. I’m scared that I’m not good enough, I’m scared to be disappointed and I feel insecure. Guys have approached me and liked me before but whenever I have some feels for them, I feel the need to back off. I actually don’t know how to go about it.