Some people are right for each other. Some are not. It’s that simple. Not everyone is compatible with everyone.

What’s right is right, what isn’t, isn’t

If you need to force yourself to be another person for someone, it’s not right and it won’t last. That’s fake. People can sense it.

You should never compare yourself to others either. You should like yourself and stand by it. In other words if you are being yourself, and someone is not into you, you should accept that as being their problem, not yours, and let it go. Find someone who does like you being you.

Definitely don’t look at someone who is being themselves and try to be like them. That is not genuine and it won’t work. It needs to be natural.

You can step in, meddle, and ruin it for one or both but that won’t make them want you, it might even change them and push them further away. You need to accept s*** for what it is. You win some, you lose some. If you try to force s*** you ruin it for everyone involved and you end up in a worse situation than you started. Everyone loses.

How is it that people don’t understand this? It’s common sense.