to: men are so complicated. Me: thanks for the compliment. We lust after women and provide them security. We have both created and corrupted religions. We need sport, to challenge ourselves and keep our wits sharp. I think its our insecurities that come out in frustrating ways, but same with women? I heard that many women like guys that know and go after what they want. Is that you and can you see why that can hardly be categorically 100% in your interest? Hope this helps, it is just my perspective, I hope you stay more inquisitive than frustrated. We are sometimes at the mercy of chemistry and sometimes fall short. The key for the wise among us is to set our ego aside and learn and grow.