Thats the spirit. The past is the past. The only purpose it serves us is for lessons

Its a nice fairy tale thought, it would be nice but unfortunatwly most people are not on the same page. It is a nice thought though. I know personally I will never make an effort to reach out to things from the past especially certain things no matter how important they are or were. I wouldn’ respond to them reaching out either. I know that. It’s all done. Some of it so toxic for me, I never even realized there could be such a level of toxicity, so I know its for the better. We were just the wrong mix of people. Not on the same page. I cant touch it even if I wanted to. Its easier to take that “its impossible” mentality, accept it and get on with things. If you can always remember “its impossible” and believe it, you have no choice but to fall somewhere else and let someone else love you too. Thats what I find, you need to be real about it though. Dont lie to yourself and know exactly whats good for you and what is not, think with your head and do the right thing for yourself, which might mean do the right thing for someone else. Or you lose them.

I’m actually happy with what I have now tbh. The fantasy or what it’s are nice to think about sometimes, I’m a nostalgic, s*** happenes over time though. Sometimes things get way to out of reach or burried.

Life is easier when you see s*** for what it really is.