I already told her not to wait and everything, she told me I can’t change her mind so I did my part. Also a friend of mine just told me that she was telling people bad things abt me and they not hate me. Like she told this one friend she had s*** abt me and that one friend texted my close friend and told my close friend that my ex said I did hurtful things to her but she didn’t tell me what. And now that person hates me j bc my ex lied and talked s*** abt me. If someone you love can talk s*** abt u to another friend then that ain’t love. And I’m convinced she’s toxic for me at this point Bc that’s another thing she did that’s hurtful to me Bc I am the nicest person there is and she knows it. The problem w her is she puts her dignity before me. She wouldn’t even fckn tell her friends the truth that she’s the one that hurt me Bc she doesn’t wanna look like a bad guy and now I look like a bad guy in front of someone I dont know. Honestly I think my happiness comes first and I’m not texting her. I made it clear that she shouldn’t wait and it’s over so now it’s time to like do me. You know? And yes i know what u mean but u have to keep communicating till it gets between if u guys plan to stay in that relationship