lily- yeah girl i know what you mean. i believe people can do differently and my guy is a really good example of that. he cheated on me in our relationship too i was really hurt because it’s not good but i depend on a lot when we are in the relationship. if your mom is sus with you i do think it would take a while and she just has to show you that your worth it and wait for you. i think deep down you know it’s worth it you’re just really hurt because i felt that way too and a majority of our relationship was so so amazing and i didn’t want to let the problems that he made ruin a lot of good that can happen. it takes time but it was so worth it for us, he made me happy and still does everyday, I trust him so much now he opens up and is honest about everything. you have to be able to see it though, if they aren’t making an effort forget it but if they are see past things if you guys had a lot. i know it hurts to hear and try and believe what she says but if you loved her or fell in love with her you’d know she’s different then most and that’s exactly what i felt. so much anger and sadness took over me for a while and i needed a bit of time but he gave it to me and after that we took it slow. and already if you think you would’ve done the same it’s just problems at home, i say go for it honestly and work it out because you don’t know the outcome. i was happy on my own most of my life but he came along and made it so much better. yes he slipped up but he worked hard to get me back and im really stubborn lol haha. basically me and my boyfriend it’s been months since he cheated and we are back to normal but he can still get jealous and all that and we just block each other everytime someone pisses someone off lmao but that pissed me off, it’s heated in the moment but it’s funny after.