I think my brother checks me out. I’m 14 and he’s 23. He’s also verbally abusive towards my mom and refuses to leave the house and get a job. I’ll be walking and i’ll look behind me and he’s always looking. If we’re in the car, he stares at me through the rear view, and when I cover my chest by folding my arms, he looks away. And he always wants to take me to the store by himself, and he complains to my mom that I don’t spend enough time with him just so she’ll tell me to go with him and he’ll show off and stare at me. I give him the least amount of attention and time as possible so maybe he’ll stop, but it’s happened since I hit puberty. I’m not even that developed, i’m in like a 34B bra I think, it’s just that I have a fit female body I guess. It makes me really uncomfortable and I can’t tell my mom because i’m not even 100% sure if that’s what he looks at. It’s just really annoying. I have no respect for this guy, and wouldn’t really consider him family anymore after a lot of things he’s done. I try to firgive everyone, but he’s on an endless loop of acting up, apolagizing, and acting like he’s the parent in the house over my mom and tries to make her look so dumb so he can have the power. He’s never admitted to anything he’s done, and only finds these lame excuses or blames EVERYTHING from eating the last cookie to his entire “terrible” past of being bullied in the 3rd grade. He’ll twist words and situations so he always looks like the good guy to people who don’t know what’s happened. And makes sure my mom looks like the bad guy. Please pray that he’ll move out soon, I hate not being able to have peace in my own home.