There is so much social pressure to be available, to interact with peers, to engage in romantic relationships, to get married, to have kids, etc. I’ve never understood why we must all conform and do that!

I’m successful in my career, have good relationships with my coworkers (both superiors and juniors). I don’t have much family, but stay in contact with those I do have. I have a very small handful of “friends” – more friendly acquaintances, really. I rarely socialize, however.

My ideal day is getting home from work, changing into pajamas and curling up with my dogs on the couch and vegging out in front of television or reading. A little wine. Cook for myself (sometimes order out, but prefer knowing how my food is prepared). The thought of having this interrupted by another person turns me off to no end. Someone else breathing my air, making a mess of my space, etc…no. Just no.

Yes, I love s**. Yes, sometimes I need it. Yes, sometimes I get it. It’s just s**, though. He (it’s usually a different he, but sometimes there are regulars) comes over, we f***, he leaves. No, I don’t want kids. No, I don’t want someone around all the time. More often I am more satisfied by taking care of business on my own..haha

Is this weird?

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