Are you falling for lust or are you in love? Everyone here wants a “dedicated” “true” “loving” relationship. Sire it’s okay to dream about what that would look like for you. But I don’t thinking searching the internet will find you true love. True love is when you want whatever is best for the one you care about. When you’ll put them first. Not just do it so you look or feel good about doing it. But because you genuinely care for that person. Because you genuinely care more for their happiness and being okay than yours. Lust is imagining this and jumping right in. Rushing right in. The person I am in love with is currently happier with somebody else. And if they aren’t going to be that happy with me, then despite the pain it will cause me, I want them to be as happy as possible because I deeply care about them and their emotions. So many people call their lust “love”…but is it really?