Can people change? From abuser to not being an abuser? I married my husband 2 years ago and we have one year old twins. My husband is 42. He is a very loving husband, always treats me kindly, never laid a hand on me other than in a loving manner. He enjoys every minute with the twins.
However, yesterday, I found out what happened wjth his previous marriage and child in his late 20s. He was a domestic abuser. And he served 3 years in jail and was ordered no contact with them. Since then he has moved to another state, my state, to start over I assume.
He was scared of a new relationship and he eventually built his confidence again. I do not want to destroy our happy life by telling him I did research. He never wanted to talk about his previous state and I was curious. I’ve known him 5 years and he has been nothing but wonderful to me. What do I do? I love him beyond anything words can describe.