My boyfriend decided not to visit me for my birthday because the week before he volunteered at this one place that left him exhausted. It was a week after he was done but, he said he still felt exhausted and didn’t want to visit even after my family members offered to give him a ride since they were coming to visit me for my birthday also. Now, it’s almost his birthday and I know my period is coming. I’m already getting really bad cramps so I know it will be a very heavy flow/painful one. I’m supposed to sleepover along with his whole family where we will all be sleeping in the same room. There’s only two bathrooms to share between all like 15 people and it makes me feel uncomfortable. He bailed for my birthday because he felt “exhausted”, so I’m tempted to bail on his birthday for similar reasons but I still feel guilty…