I would like to share my story with all of you. I am female, 28 years old. And i’m currently in a 5 years relationship. He his my first boyfriend. I can say that our relationship is not that exciting as other couples out there. We often do our date every Sunday, we go to church and eat lunch together. And we often meet after work and go home together. Talking how’s our day and etc. And that is our usual routine for 5 years. Recently he said that he wanted to go back school and study. And he wanted me to wait for him for four years. I am not against for what is he planning to do but I am not young anymore. If he wants me to wait for him for 4 years, i’ll be 32 yrs old by that time then we will get married maybe 33 due to the preparation. After that we don’t know if we will have baby soon. I’m afraid if I can still able to have baby during that time. They say that if a woman turns 30 yrs old it wont be easy specially if first child. I’m afraid and confused. Can somebody give advise?
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About the baby issue they’re talking rubbish. After 35 it starts becoming dangerous for a first baby but then only marginally so. I had a perfect baby and I was 31 when I fell pregnant. The big issue here is that he expects you to put your life on hold for him for 4 years without even considering what you want.
I couldn’t have said it better. He really doesn’t give a shit about her wants. He never has, that’s why she says they have a routine relationship. That’s why she’s asking all these questions. Honey let this man go so you can find what you’re really looking for.. Set him and yourself free.