Maya sinden. Maya sinden is the name of my old abuser. She constantly would spit at me, berate me, smack and slap me. I would never fight back because I am physically stronger so I would just take it. After the break up (we had a shared friend group) she told everyone I was a terrible boyfriend because I ignored her. Which was never true, I would constantly do everything in my power to help her and be there for her, we broke up because my r*** case had come out to everyone for the first time and I was busy. And all she wanted to do was have s**. So I distanced myself from her and everyone around me. Everyone liked her better. But the longer I stayed away the more they grew to see her for who she really was. Almost a year later she roofied my boyfriend (I’m bi) at prom. I’m graduated now and they’re an adult so I can finally say this. I sought help from the school and police to press charges or at the very least get a restraining order. But I was never helped. I still feel unsafe. And I hate them with everything in me, but most of all I pity them.