I had to watch my dad being verbally, emotionally, financially and mentally abused by my mom my whole life and it KILLS me. He is the sweetest, purest person i know, and although i don’t live with my parents anymore i still see my mom abuse him everytime we talk. If we videochat my mom can’t let us talk for 2 minutes, she has to demean him every second with “pff shut up, stop talking, what nonsense,shut your mouth” and she constantly interrupts us. She always tells me, their child, how useless he is, how he can’t take care of himself let alone our family, how thankful he should be that she puts up with him,how stupid he is, how he lies all the time,how socially inept he is,how he makes her angry all the time on purpose, what a terrible father he is. The thing is, i see him. He is the sweetest, kindest soul, he loves animals, he loves kids and kids love him, he never does anyone harm. And he would have been a great father to me if she hadn’t been trying to separate us my whole life…when i was little she succeeded for a while and I had lost respect for him and got estranged from him although we lived in the same house. I had to show that I see how bad and useless my daddy was to survive in this environment. Now that i grew up and I don’t need her care and anytime