You can't call it weaponized incompetence when your partner doesn't pretend he's incapable of doing something so that you just get it done rather than

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You can’t call it weaponized incompetence when your partner doesn’t pretend he’s incapable of doing something so that you just get it done rather than brook his inability. Instead, he does everything so exactly perfect that you’ve completed 1000 tasks by the time he does one. What’s that called? Weaponized perfectionism? Because I swear, I just folded, sorted, and put away 3 weeks worth of linens, towels, and rags while he perfectly ironed and folded 1 pillow case. And I’m f****** sick of it. I can’t be both a failure that never does anything right and the person that does everything for much longer.

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To be human is to continually change. Your desire to remain as you are is what ultimately limits you.

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even when there’s so many people around me i feel so lonely. i feel like ive always been there for the little things in everyone elses’ life that i forget to be there for myself. ever since my first breakup 3 years ago i’ve always felt like there was an empty void to feel. not the kind of empty void that another person fills but the kind where im ok with my own presence. all my talking stages feel like i’m chasing someone just to make them love me. everyone says im pretty, kind, and caring but i don’t know what im missing that someone else has. maybe its the way i give talking stages my all and the way i show up even when they hurt me hoping that they’ll change. i want a love thats genuine and gentle with my broken heart. not because im desperate but because i want to feel loved the way i love others. im blessed to have a soft heart again and again even when it feels like it should be hard as stone.