my bf is gaslighting me.. he keeps talking about “making enough to move out” he’s f****** 35 w. a masters degree from an IVY and makes over 6 figures… he’s getting a 20k raise and is still saying it’s a “step”. I’m pulling my F****** HAIR OUT. I don’t even think it’s the not moving out. it’s the f****** gaslighting… he doesn’t WANT to leave his mom and dad. I keep trying to get him to admit that. he’s pretending it’s money, he’s legit scared to live alone. he doesn’t travel either. not even domestically outside of his job. and said that’s finances too, but he’s spent like 5-7k on me since christmas. he’s not going to, the mfer thinks i’m gonna move in THERE and be chained to his weirdo a** family NO. he keeps acting like he has a plan for us, … how can u be so educated and so responsible and just offer the same s*** the poor parents u look down on did?
