my older cousin dated a guy when she was 18, he was 19, and i was 8. (im 15 now) they were so close she let him babysit me one night, and he raped me. i never told anyone, not even my cousin.
they broke up but never told anyone the resin why, until a few weeks ago when she sat me down and explained that she broke up with him after she found out he had been sexting and receiving nudes from six girls aged 9-14. she said that he’d changed and that he’d been punished enough by their breakup that he didn’t need to go to jail or face legal consequences, and around a week after he convinced her he didn’t need to go to jail they started dating, and in october of this year they got engaged. my cousin asked me last night if i could be one of her bridesmaids for the wedding. i dont know what to do, i can’t say no without telling everyone what he did to me and i’m so scared