I’ve been with my wonderful girlfriend for almost 4 years now. With all the time I spent with her, I feel whole and complete. I absolutely think that she’s the one I’ve been looking for. But there is an aching problem. Before I met her, I cheated on my previous partner for a year with someone who was surprisingly willing to “do” me, knowingly I was taken. I broken off with my ex because I didn’t want her to know that I was cheating on her. Eventually, I broke off with my sidechick as well since I got bored. And now I have this aching feeling of telling her about it because I don’t want her to know it in some other person’s mouth. I really felt loved and cared since we’ve been together and I don’t want to destroy all that. But is telling her the right thing? Maybe she’ll give me the suspicious glare if I tell her