I’ve known my bf for like 2-3months and today, I just know that previously he had s** with another woman and believe that he got her pregnant. My guy intended to take responsibility of her and his baby, however, he just knew that woman was already married. In addition, she said the baby wasn’t his and she said it was her husband’s. She didn’t let him meet the child at all. Recently, my guy and his friend told me that the woman suddenly texted him and said she’ll allow him to meet his kid but she wants money in return. My guy wanted to meet her but she suddenly changed her mind again. Until now.

Now, I did asked him weeks before, does he had any previous affairs before? I told him every single thing i should and i was expecting him to do the same. But he lied. I was shocked enough about him having s***** affair with another woman previously but having a kid?

He wept, crying all night, begging for apology, he said he didn’t mean to lie. He know I’d piss off so he was waiting for a good time. I said, oh then when would it be? Like 3 years in the future when your kid and his/her mom came slapping me in the face and asking for something ridiculous as a result of “dad’s negligence”?

I’m so f****** confused and pissed at the same time. I was laughing while crying. There goes my trust. I don’t know where to go from here. He was begging and all, saying he wants to open a new chapter and so on.

But deep down, this disturbs me. F****** alot.