I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years. I was her superman, her perfect guy. I played her the piano, the guitar, I did her pancakes in the morning, I carried her and walked around university with her in my arms, I made her webpages, I got her gifts, I protected her.
She loved my body, my shoulders that she thinks are huge and my chest that she likes to put her head on. She played with my hair and loved my beard. She loved my eyes saying that she always wanted to be with a guy with green eyes. She loved my intellect and all the information I know and all the smart things I do. She would brag about her being with an engineer.
I loved her eyes, the blue color of a clear sea. Her locks of hair bouncing around as she moved about. She had the fullest lips and the best shoulders ever. I would kiss her shoulder blades and all down her spine. The little hairs on the back of her neck would stand up when I did it.
She used to write me lovely things, she used to call me her superman, she used to trust me blindly, she used to offer help even when she was busy with her own stuff, she would get me some breakfast in the cutest tupperware when I picked her up for uni In the morning.
I broke up with her because we have no future together. Her parents are religious and I’m an atheist. I am going abroad when I’m done with my degree and she’s staying here. I am a liberal she is a conservative. I care about my looks and body but she neglects hers. She doesn’t stay out late at night and drinking is out of the question.
We differ on a fundamental level. Better now than later.
Her superman left her and lost his powers doing so. Please tell me she’s going to be alright, that her crying will soon stop…
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I just wanna look at you all day. There ain’t nothing wrong, no. There ain’t nothing wrong with that.
I don’t understand…
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I don’t think you will ever find a girl or a woman tailor-shaped for you(physically, religiously, socially…). A relation is a matter of compromise as well. Both partners has to make concessions.
I am sorry to tell you that she won’t heal in the near future if your relationship was as described. Think about it again.
you’re just a dick head you idiot! Being different is what’s best in a relationship. So what if she doesnt’ drink like you do? It’s good to know that she is sober. simply, idiot!
I agree with #4.
T.A.
I am sorry for you. I understand it might be a difficult situation, but I also think a part of you really did want to leave her, so ask yourself why and what that part of you is. You might see things differently in the future. I know it can really hurt, but time will eventually put you back in one peace. In the future, you might have the pleasure of finding a girl you know is right for you, but you will probably not find another one like this one (and even if you do I doubt you’d wanna start over). Every girl is unique. Maybe this suffering is a way for your mind to teach you not to do the same things again.
Good luck.
To all the haters, I understand.
But you have to realize something. We are beyond the simple bf/gf stage. It is time to think about the future and there doesn’t seem to be one in sight.
It’s been 2 months I’ve been having these thoughts. I no longer enjoy our dates as I used to do. We are stuck in boredom and tensions are high.
And just for the record, I heard she’s doing fine. I’m fairings worse than she is, but I prefer it that way.
P.S: to the person calling me an idiot, I do not think you understood my words. It isn’t only about the drinking.
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