A friend starting dating this girl. She was not nice to anyone. She started making him stop hanging out with his friends more and more. Most of my friends dropped him, saying that he wouldn’t stand up for them when she would insult them. I held on, becuase she had never said anything mean about me. Then one day, he texted me and told me to f-off. He told me to never speak or even look at him again. I thought maybe she had taken his phone. I confronted him and asked if she took his phone. He said yes. Later, I got another text, saying that he lied to me because he couldn’t say f-off to my face. I blocked his number and didn’t talk to him for three months. One day he came and acted as if nothing happened. I missed my friend so I went along with it. Fastforward another few months, I got another f-off text. It was longer, filled with more swears and I cried harder than I did the first time. I cut him out. Years later, he contacted a friend of mine (because I blocked him and deleted his number) hoping to contact me. I agreed to meet. I told him all about how it hurt. How I was at a party having a blast the first time I got that text and how I went home and cried. And then how it felt for him to come back as if nothing ever happened. I told him how much it hurt to be sworn at by someone who knew I didn’t do well with people swearing at me. He apoligized for dating this girl and for letting her break all his friendships. I told him to have a good life. I should be over it, but it still hurts.