So my sisters guy friend started living with us when he was a senior in high school. That was around three years ago. My sister had moved out around a year ago and I was supposed to get her room(it was the master bedroom) but whenever I asked my mom when I could move in she’d just say whenever you want. The guy was still living in that room. The guy and my mom happened to work together and soon after my sister moved out they got close. I thought they were just becoming good friends because my mom tends to make a lot of friends and they are always around each other. But I was wrong. Around January is when this all really started. My mom and the guy are both seasonal workers so they stayed home all day in the winter. My dad was still working and my siblings were all at school. Everyday I’d get home and they’d be locked up in his room smoking pot and laying around. I never knocked or tried to go in because I was never close with the guy. All I really knew was that he was living with us cause of problems at home. My mom at the time would always ask me if I was happy to have an older brother now. She was so distant she barely left his room but to smoke a cig(he came too) or to make dinner once in a while or to check on my baby brother once or twice(he sat in the living room by himself all day or at least that’s how it looked when I came home everyday to him sitting in front of the tv) or to go to bed with my father. on weekends she left to go party( she’s 40) and either me or my father would stay home and watch my brother. In February he and she went on a trip to Florida( we live in Maine) for a week. She said they were visiting their friend but when they came back my mom said they barely even got to see her. We never even go on family day trips because we don’t have the money. Around the end of the school year my mom and dad started fighting. My dad was getting irritated because my mom never spent time with him and was always cooped up with the guy. She told him he was stupid and acted like we were all crazy for being frustrated. The way she treated all of us compared to the guy made me feel extremely worthless and I started to get depressed ( other things led to it too). My dad finally left in July. Right before my birthday. Since then the reason has sorta unfolded itself because my mother and father never told me what happened. Finally not too long ago my sister confirmed what I didn’t what to believe but had always subconsciously suspected. My mother was having an affair. A 40 yr old and a 20 yr old who she treated like a son. She snuck around under all of our noses. She lived happy in their little world while we all suffered. And him. What kind of guy is invited into someone’s home—their friends home—and sleeps with their mother? He destroyed my family. Now the place I come to to get away from all the b******* makes me feel a million times worse. It makes my stomach ache and my blood boil. This s*** s****.
—sadbitch🤭