I have a major suspicion that my boyfriend of 3 years is planning on proposing to me, as do my friends and family. Thing is, we’ve been on-and-off throughout the span of our relationship, and it’s only been six months since the last time we got back together. We still have so many issues to work through in our relationship, and though I love him with all of my heart, I can’t say yes if he proposes. At this point in time, marriage will only worsen things for everyone. I’m dreading the conversation I plan to have with him tonight regarding marriage and how I feel it is not the right time. I don’t want to beat around the bush, “drop hints,” I just want to be upfront with him. But still, it’s going to be a painful conversation. Wish me luck :((

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