I’m a virgin (still, at 21) and tomorrow I’m supposed to lose it to a guy I think I have a crush on. He’s in law school and definitely doesn’t have the time to be in a relationship with me, nor does he have feelings for me. On the one hand, I know there’s not anything morally wrong with having a purely physical relationship with someone, and I am friends with him. But I did want to lose my virginity to someone who loves me, and that’s not going to happen. I fully intended to lose my virginity to my ex, who I was (and still am) in love with, but he ended it because I wasnt’f important to him anymore (his words, not mine). I know everyone says not to settle but I feel like I’m not worthy of love. Men always tell me how badly they want to f*** me but none of them fall in love with me, and I feel like this is just my lot in life now. Am I just defective now?
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Bottom line: you allow people to treat you like you want to be treated. If you think you are worth 25 cents the. People will treat you like your worth 25 cents. If you even fake like you have some self esteem, you will see people treat you differently. You determine your worth, not them. So what are you worth, treasures or trash?
No ! Don’t lose your virginity to someone who doesn’t love you.
It’s precious, once you lose your virginity it will be to late
Please do it with someone who loves you, just keep seeking you
will find him 🙂
Don’t do it. You posted this because you knew what you needed to hear. This isn’t what you need or want and still you know it’s a form of self sabotage.
You’re hurting. You wanted a very special experience with somebody who left you reeling with disillusionment.
Don’t give up.