My wife had a miscarriage. We have two beautiful children already. This was her third pregnancy. We were only about 6 weeks in. All of this sounds like it would make it easier to cope. It hasn’t. I feel like a part of me is gone. I keep wondering why. The biggest surprise to me is how much this hurts. My wife is over it. I am not. I feel lost, but I know my family needs me. I feel like this is Karma for bad s*** I have done in my life. I guess I also feel a huge sense of guilt. It hurts a lot. I never ever thought I would feel like this from a miscarriage. I feel like saying this, so I am going to say it and I don’t know why but here it goes:
I’m sorry
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Seriously dude??? ? You need to go get some pussy…
You aren’t helping
Your wife is not over it, even if she seems like she is. Nobody gets over something like that unscathed.
I’m sorry for your loss.
I’ve felt guilt over horrible stuff that’s happened to me to.
I recommended finding someone, ideally a therapist or trusted friend, with whom you can process this.
Maybe the guilt won’t go away. Maybe it will. Either way, you’ll probably be able to go about supporting the in your life and feeling fulfilled if you first allow yourself to grieve.