Okay so I have just finished school and have been in a relationship with a 29 Yr old for like 4 or 5 months he wants to have a baby but I am not ready i wanna make it to my 21st without having kids, but he’s always pushy like when we have s** he always cums in me thank god I haven’t gotten pregnant yet. He’s also made jokes about me getting pregnant and him trapping me for 18 years then says I’m just kidding, I’ve also suggested getting on birth control but he says not to cos it’ll cause problems in the future for when I want to have kids, I honestly feel like he’s try na trap me, but he does so much for me, I’m just not ready for a baby he may have lived his life fun and all but he needs to know my life of and adult is just starting and I don’t feel like being held down right now
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Get the hell away from this creep NOW! He IS trying to trap you. He knows you are young and will probably meet someone else better than him one day. He wants you to have his child it’s a way of putting a label on you saying ‘men: this is mine, not that you would want to raise another guys child anyway.’
You are young and you have so much to experience before you should become a mother. The way this guy behaves reminds me of abusive men who beat their partners, they start out annoying and a bit pushy and then it gets worse and worse until they are telling you which friends you can and can’t have, controlling you etc and then they start beating you. Leave him it will get worse.
Thanks guys for the helpful words,helping me see the bigger picture x
He doesn’t have your best interests at heart and is constantly pushing your boundaries despite clear communication. He is being disrespectful and abusive
From a guys perspective …get out now! He has no intentions of a life commitment. Just using you.
Don’t listen to anything he has said it’s all selfcentered b.s. For him, not you. Your thoughts you shared were and are the best ideas . Take back what he is taking from you, the control of your life.it’s you
Your happiness, your decision, your body. You can do this .it’s your right!!!!!!! No questions!!