My best friend came out as a lesbian about two years ago and I love her like a best friend but I fucked up and allowed myself to fall ‘in love” with her and that now seems to have caused a rift. I love her in most ways one could and for the first time in my life I think I feel true selfless love as I will never act upon this dalliance nor compromise our friendship. if you truly love someone, you take the hit for their sake and put their happiness before yours, and for the first time in my life I am doing just that but it hurts like a son-of-a-b**** and is confusing, hard and emotionally painful.
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You have put yourself in a heartbreaking situation.
I would jokingly tell her that you love her and then be serious.tell her your true feeling .about when u see her or when she does certain things that make you go crazy.or how she looks to you when she’s “rough.” The little things that you love about her . her qualities that makes her beautiful in your eyes.these thing should roll off your tongue.as thou it were a waterfall.