today i bought my girlfriend a bracelet worth 500 $ for valentine’s day and i got in return a stupid shirt worth 20 $ max
H.H
today i bought my girlfriend a bracelet worth 500 $ for valentine’s day and i got in return a stupid shirt worth 20 $ max
H.H
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Break up with her. You probably don’t deserve a girl like her.
T.A.
she’s the one who shd feel bad about this seriously…does she?
why are you all looking at it from one side? unless you were being sarcastic T.A :p bcz i just saw your confession about the value of the gift n all that..
anyway maybe this month she couldn’t save up enough money or u never know what may have happened. she probably will make it up to u nd u can always tell her how u honestly feel!
3, I didn’t say she didn’t deserve him. I said he didn’t deserve her, as in she’s probably too good for him. Just look at his confession. It says a lot about him.
T.A.
Can’t believe H.H that you’re thinking this way!! but anyway this is confessions… you certainly didn’t say anything to her and smile…
Okay…i understand you, but it’s okay…you’re a great boyfriend…
Don’t make this a big deal… like 3 said, she’ll probably (if she’s normal) make it up to you…and i am sure that she loves you more than anything!!
A.
I understood what T.A. meant as soon as i read it. If you’re in it for the price, then you’re in it for all the wrong reasons.
Dear H.H.,
I get where you’re coming from. Some people feel that love and emotions can be portrayed through material items. Everyone has their own prerogatives. So don’t feel so down about yourself and what you believe.
But was this the first gift you’ve given her? If so, you should have started with something a bit smaller in order to see what she would give in return. Maybe she couldn’t afford anything over 100$? Or maybe she doesn’t believe in giving gifts that expensive. And maybe now she’s feeling horrible because she doesn’t know how to repay you the next time because that’s out of her budget. You should have thought about all these things.
Maybe she doesn’t believe in gift giving as well. It seems you guys are in a new and fresh relationship. If you want to grow with her and you think she’s worth it, then get to know her better. Learn more about her and what her likes and dislikes are. Next time don’t splurge on a 500$ item, instead cook for her dinner and add to it a romantic setting. Or rather keep splurging on her if you like to do that personally, but accept everything that comes back in return.
And if she is able to pay for at least a 100$ gift, and she is the kind of girl who likes expensive gifts and loves to get pampered, and she went and got you a shirt for less than 20$ then you need to question whether or not you want to stay with her. It just shows how thoughtless she was about the gift and she just wanted to get it over and done with. I mean a t-shirt as a first gift doesn’t need that much thought and brain storming. So you need to reflect on that and decide whether you want to be with someone like that or not.
Good luck.
Lilith