I have been in love with another man for years I am in a long term heterosexual relationship. I should know better. But the bond that has formed is so strong. We are separated by distance so it’s only the occasional phone or texting and picture sharing. But I think I might be addicted to the secret and the kink of it. He has been a good friend even when the s** side is dormant for years or months. Not sure what will happen but I love him. This is complicated by the fact I do love my partner and our life. This s****!!!