is it bad that i lie to my ex that i want him back so that i could destroy his feelings like how he did to my feelings when we dated. he used all sort of excuse like i saved him and all but i know him all too well. he would guilt trip me and he wants me back because i’m somewhat the only one that can tolerate him and will give him his needs that i respectfully said to him that i feel uncomfortable however he forced me to. so in order for him to not talk to me anymore is, by telling a one secret lie should be enough, right? am i doing the right thing? maybe maybe not let’s see
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That is a little bad. Beware of karma.
You shouldn’t mess with his feelings, or your own. You should move on to better things, dont you want to be happy?
I think if you didnt care, you wouldn’t care
I would say it’s unhealthy. You should forget them completely and get on with your life.
I knew 1 specific women who at one time really wrecked me badly, and ruined parts of me and my life, and I dont want to say it was intentional, but it absolutely was disregard, selfishness and lack of care for what this shit would do to me, on top of casting me away like a piece of garbage.
I’m way over that, and once I got out of it and over her, I realized what a piece of shit she was and I hate her fucking guts, BUT I will just leave it at that. I don’t really give too much of a shit what she does and with who, but I wouldn’t give her the time of day again. Not that she wants it, but if she ever did, I’ll treat her like the piece of shit garbage she treated me like. She will get exactly, EXACTLY what she gave me. I would act like I dont know her and never met her. I wouldn’t even speak to her or acknowledge her existence. I also wouldn’t believe anything she said to me as far as feelings. Bullshit. Bull fucking shit. I know all too well she’s a bullshitter to the highest degree. She’s cold as ice and doesn’t have feelings (romantically, for anyone) imo. From what I’ve experienced knowing her. She can go fuck herself. I dont buy a god damn thing she says.
Thats the best way to handle your ex. Like its over.
Revenge is a bitter pill best left unswallowed. Be the better person by just taking the heartache and showing your ex the door. Burn that bridge and move on with your life.