is it bad that i lie to my ex that i want him back so that i could destroy his feelings like how he did to my feelings when we dated. he used all sort of excuse like i saved him and all but i know him all too well. he would guilt trip me and he wants me back because i’m somewhat the only one that can tolerate him and will give him his needs that i respectfully said to him that i feel uncomfortable however he forced me to. so in order for him to not talk to me anymore is, by telling a one secret lie should be enough, right? am i doing the right thing? maybe maybe not let’s see