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HI 13yo Eighth grader whose mom is cheating:…………………………………………………………………………………. I wish I felt confident that I have “the RIGHT advice” just for you……………………. but even if I did feel that way, it would still need YOU to recognize as much………………… which is an unlikely combination………………………………………………. What I WILL say is that in 8th grade (by the way, I loved the movie “Eighth Grade”)… you can’t recognize that such a small amount of “significant life” has gone by, that is it probably MOST IMPORTANT that you refrain from doing anything that will derail your own life up ahead……………….. Indeed your mom MIGHT be derailing HER own life… but for now, YOU really need both of your parents, and it is too early to guess at which parent will be your major support over the next… 10 or 15 years……………. I understand that they are struggling, AND THAT there is nothing that YOU can do which would bring them back together in harmony…. but I don’t think YOU want to burn bridges with your mom OR your dad right now… considering the path toward YOUR OWN BEST EVOLUTION from here forward…………………………………………………… when you’re in 8th grade, there are cute boys, and pretty girls…………… and it isn’t until years later that you look back at 8th grade and realize that most of the girls still had “waist-to-hip ratios” of about 1.00 … and that they are nowhere near to the eventual ratios that might get near to .70 … which will have them “noticed” by adults later on. ………………………………………………………………………………………. You don’t have to solve the world (or even decide your future) when you’re in eighth grade, so the best course of action is to preserve ALL of the possibilities for your OWN FUTURE for as long as you can, before needing to make a CHOICE among them. (don’t do anything drastic NOW)

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Ex wife refused her punishment. Let s** coach/coordinator know. He was very disappointed in me but told me to let things blow over and he will convince the other married men i kneel for to start coming around again as long as my ex wife stops coming over. Understandably they dont like the risk od her showing up unannounced wanting to see me on my knees again. But he said he and or his son would start visiting my mouth again soon as long as i agreed to changing locks on house and shed where i orally service them. I agreed and he and his son came over with new locks and we divided and conquered changing the locks (without any time on my knees). They told me they had talked and would find another woman to take the son’s virginity with women. They told me that they were telling me this for two reasons. So that my place if i was willing would be the safe space for the son to experience a woman. Father and son also agreed that that experience should be something that the son experience both me and the woman, and then the woman separately, so that the son could decide his own preferences. The father also said that he would like to use my place to put female candidates thru their paces to select the right woman for his son,’s first experiences with a woman. The father even said he was sorry for having to punish me so severely but he did it because i was responsible for bringing my ex wife into all this and putting all the neighborhood hisbands i kneel for at risk. He even said that while he did not see it being the same woman he eventually selects for his son, he was willing to find a female FWB for me to replace my ex wife and told me he understood how it all happened but that i would be happier in the long run without the insane toxicity of my ex being the outlet for my heterosexual side. I have not heard from ex wife since the attempt to convince her to take her punishment for her contribution to the issue and idk when i will hear from her next.

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