• 6 days ago

Have an honest and open discussion with your bf about getting pregnant.

There are alternatives. Like adopting a child. There are also people who specialize in early child care so it is less strain on the mother.

If you are open minded you can allow him to have a child with another woman and then adopt the child. Some cultures have multiple wives for the male and he can have children with one wife but not another.

There are always alternatives. Perhaps he will agree that children just don’t fit in and he may be willing to stop asking you about it. You don’t know until you discuss the situation with him and look for solutions.